Then some of His disciples said among themselves, “What is this that He says to us, ‘A little while, and you will not see Me; and again a little while, and you will see Me’; and, ‘because I go to the Father’?” They said therefore, “What is this that He says, ‘A little while’? We do not know what He is saying.”
Now Jesus knew that they desired to ask Him, and He said to them, “Are you inquiring among yourselves about what I said, ‘A little while, and you will not see Me; and again a little while, and you will see Me’? Most assuredly, I say to you that you will weep and lament, but the world will rejoice; and you will be sorrowful, but your sorrow will be turned into joy. A woman, when she is in labor, has sorrow because her hour has come; but as soon as she has given birth to the child, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world. Therefore you now have sorrow; but I will see you again and your heart will rejoice, and your joy no one will take from you.
“And in that day you will ask Me nothing. Most assuredly, I say to you, whatever you ask the Father in My name He will give you. Until now you have asked nothing in My name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.
Birthing something new involves pain of various degrees: a sense the labor and pain will never end, fear can be a factor for those in it for the first time, regret for being involved in the process. Once the new has been revealed, whether it is a child or anything else, the labor and all it entailed is forgotten. It wasn’t taken away, it still existed but the joy of the baby erases the pain, labor, fear and regret. Jesus relates this to the birth of the new covenant. There was all of this: pain, labor, fear, regret and more but with His resurrection, with the knowledge of what He was bringing to the world came joy that covered it all. While we are in the process of working for the kingdom of God, he promises us we will receive anything we ask of the Father in His name. He also promises a time when we will no longer ask him for anything. What will make the difference? We will have received and our joy will be complete. The birth will have taken place, the new will have been revealed. Can this be applied to many different situations? Absolutely. And we can move forward in the knowledge He leads, we can ask and will receive and there will come a day when our joy will be complete.